Thank you all for the info on Disneyland. I had to hear it from my 9 yr old all weekend about how he wants to go. I did a quick quote and it would probably cost us about 4K-5K to go. Air fare for the three of us could be anywhere from $1700-$1900, plus hotel for 4 or 5 days, then add in food and tickets. It would probably be a once in a lifetime trip so I think I would want to stay at the hotel that is closest to the park. We wouldnt need a suite or upgraded room but even a standard room I am anticipating to be pricey.
So it looks like our disneyland trip is going to be something we will have to save a long time for. There are so many things we need to do at home (need to replace laminate flooring, need new blinds, etc) that the timing just isnt right for a cross country vacation. We will have to stick with our 3 hr drive to Orlando for now.