OK it took a call to member services to have my username reset. Since becoming members I had used my email address to log in. They are no longer allowing email addresses to be used to log in. I had to create a new username since the one I had entered in was associated with my email address. It does not make much sense to me why they changed it, its not like it would be easy for someone to be able to get into my account as it is.
At least the CM was as usual super nice.
I did ask them about using BossMouse as my user name and I was told that name is under a special watch list